It’s been pretty much same-old, same-old over here. You know--the kids stomping crackers into the carpet and spilling milk every five minutes, toting heavy toddlers to and fro in 102 degree weather just to stay sane, babies crying over ridiculous things like not being able to get a sock on but cry louder when I try to help them, some Roseola here and some colds there, watching Nemo and “Doie!” over and over and finding myself laughing at the same parts every time, having to fight to get kids dressed, a never-ending gigantic pile of laundry, about a dozen diapers a day, vegging in front of the Bachelorette, kissing chubby cheeks all day and still not feeling like I can get enough—that kind of same-old.
But really, things have been going well in our little home. I’ll go through some highlights that have made me happy lately.
- Ruby calls both of the boys “Bit” (Bennett). For instance, once she was up from her nap before them, and when she heard one of them wake up, she looked at me excitedly and said “Des Bit!” (There's Bennett). Or she’ll hand one of them a toy and say, “ Here Bit. Oh das nice.” She always likes to acknowledge when she’s being nice. She also knows when she’s doing something that’s naughty by saying “Da naw nice!” (that’s not nice). But does she stop? Ha! Someday. Still, my girlfriend has me wrapped tightly around her finger.
- I have a true cuddler in Bennett. That boy knows how to melt a mother’s heart. In church last week, he was feeling shy, and was wrapped around me so tight that even when I attempted to pry his arms off of my neck, his legs held fast around my waist. He also crawls onto me anytime I am still for more than a few minutes, or follows me around the house holding onto my legs until I pick him up. But it goes both ways as I try not squeeze him too tight when I hug him every time he comes near me.
- Alex is a chatterbox. He talks to people on the phone as if they’re having a genuine conversation. He even has laughing breaks mid conversation. Sometimes he’ll just spout off random words like this, “One, two, bus, K, Ruby, rectangle, giraffe, bye-bye, see ya, hahaha.” I love when he looks me right in the eye with a straight face and just says a bunch of gibberish. I hope he always wants to have these serious conversations with me.
- Ruby has officially learned to put on her own pants and some shoes (though she’s been and expert at taking off her clothes for weeks now). She hates when I dress her, and usually runs the other direction when I come at her with a simple t-shirt. But she LOVES to put them on herself. Yes, she gets very frustrated when it doesn’t work out (like when she tried to put on her swimsuit over her head), but yesterday she came into her room for naptime with her pants on perfectly, excepting the little help she needed to get them over her puffy bum. And because of all this drama, she’s usually seen only partially dressed, or only wearing a diaper these days.
- There are a few things that Bennett says that make me laugh every time. Sometimes he just goes around the house saying “ooooOOOOkay” making his voice go really high on the last few Os. He has another version of ‘okay’ when he’s upset or nervous (like when he can see that I’m getting the bag ready for us to leave the house and he wants me to take him outside first). He’ll just cling to me and say, “okayokayokayokayokay” over and over, really fast, with a distressed tone. And if he hurts himself, or sees that someone else is hurt, or is even just in the mood, he’ll say an adorable “ Oh sawy” (sorry) in his cutest little high voice.
- Alex loooooooves to dance. He dances at the mall play place, he dances in nursery, he dances in his car seat, and of course he dances through the halls of our home from the the time he wakes up until the time she goes to bed. And he has got some MOVES! The shoulder action is what gets me. I love seeing my baby get his groove on while he watches for my approval and tries to make my laugh. And for the record, they all love a good dance party. (Bennett’s favorite move is his right foot stomp. It’s intense.)
- There are a few books they have become particularly fond of. We always leave most of the words out and listen for them to fill in the blanks (which also works well with the songs they love). Sometimes I even catch them reading (or singing) them on their own, having memorized the book well enough to say most of the words on the page. I love that I have little ones that no one else would be able to understand, yet I know almost every word they’re saying. That’s how you know you’re really a mommy.
- They are also all obsessed with signing the alphabet. The can each do quite a few letters, but they each seem to have a favorite. Ruby appropriately loves R, Alex prefers P, and Bennett is often found signing an F. They can also repeat back any that we sign to them. It gets a little distracting in church even if we’re trying to be discreet. Hopefully they learn to whisper soon. They also never tire of counting. They know up to 15 pretty well, and then go straight to 20. They can even be found counting with their little fingers up to five. One way to cheer everyone up is to get out our number and letter flash cards. They have a blast shouting out what they see as I flip through the deck. Colors are also a fascinating right now. They love the song from Signing time, “Do you know the colors of the Rainbow”. I just wish it wasn’t stuck in my head all the time.
I’m sure the list could go on for hours, but these are just a few tidbits off the top of my head. Things are crazy, things are happy, and things are good. Now for the pictures. Get ready.
Watching the rain.I love Bennett’s face in the reflection.
They loved the prizes that Grandma and Grandpa Robinson brought when they visited in July. We just had to put on Ruby’s hula gear with the new leis. Sorry Alex.
Grandparents are always a great source of entertainment.
They can’t pass up a good puddle jumping.
Bennett also got his first taste of dirt.
We could not resist trying out the new Cafe Rio 35 minutes from our house! I won’t tell you how much of that salad I ate by myself.
Ruby is my child of many quirks:
She makes hilarious faces while pretending to be a baby.
She puts every article of clothing she can find on her legs (which here includes a Christmas placemat?).
When I get her out of her crib, more often than not she brings all her gear with her and carries it around collecting more things as she goes.
Once I caught her putting on every bib we own. Whatever keeps the girl happy.
Group pictures are so rare, I had to post all the kids sitting with their auntie Lili. Penny’s face!
Bennett is a lounger.
Is there such a thing as diaper suspenders? I might have to start using duct take one of these days.
Alex is very infatuated with my “haya” (hair). He’ll play with it as long as I let him. I love it,until gets pulled or sat on too much.
Bennett tried to use his angelic little face to get out of trouble from the mess they made and the DVDs they broke. They figured out the child lock on the cabinet. Now we have resorted to a bungee cord around the tv stand, as well as the kitchen table. My home is a joke.
Sweet sleeping Ruby.
And one day I found the boys sleeping in the exact position. It weirded me out a little, especially with them dressed the same, and their blankets in the same place. Twin powers unite!
Alex was just minding his own business, enjoying the basket alone. . .
until everyone else had to join in.
Playing “Darling!”
We gave the Annapolis Mall play place a try one day, and it was a HUGE success. We went before the stores even opened (which was also great because we were the first ones there, hopefully minimizing the germ contact a little), and the kids had the place to themselves.
We then hit a couple stores. Thank you Crazy 8 for your lovely TV playing kids shows. The babies ate their cheerios like popcorn as they watched something about dogs while we shopped.
Love those little men.
I made some sugar cookie dough using egg beaters, hoping the kids would play with it like play dough. Ha. I knew they would eat it, but thought they would play a little. Nope. Every little piece I gave them went right into their mouths. So I did this with the rest of the dough. They loved their “bumbo” or "mumbo" or "ramow" (each as a different version of "rainbow") cookies.
Bennett grabs hold of any blanket he sees.
There you go Mom (or anyone else that is still here). I’ll leave you with that sweet little face. Catch-ups are fun for me too, since I rarely sit and peruse all the pictures I’ve taken in the last few weeks. We’ll see what the kids come up with for our next round of crazy catch-up.